After marriage, we are very excited about everything and believe that we will be different from other couples and become a very lovey-dovey couple. But, there is no denying that there are a few things which every couple experience. Generally, the first year of marriage is the hardest where you grow as couple and make mistakes too. There are a lot of adjustments to be made in the first year of marriage to get used to the new relationship. First year of marriage is mixed of emotions and experiences, where you love and fight, where you feel the pressure to stick to the relationship and strong feeling to rebel. You are not an exception if you are also feeling the same in the first year of your marriage. Here are a few things, we are sharing which most of the couple’s experience in the first year of marriage.
You are excited about the new beginning: You feel a different kind of excitement in the first year of marriage. You feel excited about everything around you. You make a lot of plans about your future with your life partner. You always ensure that as couple you do not make mistakes which other couples are making. You feel excited about small things like if you are supposed to make your first meal in the new family. You are over-excited because you don’t want to make any mistake and at the same time you want to impress all family members.
Discover new habits: No matter how many months you have spent together in courtship period or how well you know each-other, but there are still a lot of things which you learn about each-other when you start staying together as husband wife. You learn that there are still many things and habits about which you are not aware of. Besides, you learn that your partner is a bit different at home when he/she with the family as compared to with you when he/she is alone. You get to know each-other more closely in the first year of your marriage.
You discuss about baby: This is something which most of the newly-wed couples talk about in the first year of marriage. You share your thoughts with your partner like when you want to take the next step in your relationship. You discuss your thoughts and readiness to accept the new responsibility. You think over this next step as a team and you don’t want to force your partner for this because this will be a new responsibility for both.
You remember your first fight: After your marriage, when you first time have argument with your partner you fear about a lot of things in life. Moreover, you doubt your decision of marrying your partner. You recall each and every moment you spent together till now and all your happy moments and the argument as well. You are haunted by the same argument again and again. But, once your fight is over, you always remember how you make-up with your partner and always feel that he/she is the perfect soulmate.
You discuss a lot of things: As a married couple you discuss and share a lot of things with your partner. You talk about what people say about marriage that once the honeymoon is over, marriage became boring. After one year of marriage, you start losing interest in your partner and this relationship and much more. You dismiss all such rumors and ensure each-other that you make this relationship the best and enjoy every bit of it to the fullest.
You create your to do list: Being in this special relationship you prepare a to do list as married couple. As couple you divide responsibilities and your roles for different things. You divide responsibilities like who will do grocery shopping, who will feed the pet, who will wash dishes and cook food. So, you divide the thing and work as team.
You develop your couple routine: As newly-wed couple you develop your own routine of day and life. However, you take time to develop your routine as couple because you both must be having different lifestyle, so it takes some time to adjust with new things and routine. But, making a routine and sticking to it makes things easy for you.
Money matter: In the initial phase of your marriage, it takes some time to adjust with increased responsibilities and extra expenses. Now, money matter becomes more terrifying because you don’t want to waste money on unnecessary things, rather you want to save your money for your future.
Birthdays & anniversary becomes important: Your birthday and your spouse’s birthday becomes most important event for you. You don’t miss any important date in the first year of marriage. You never want to miss the opportunity of celebrating all important events with your life partner in the first year of marriage. Your first anniversary becomes most important to you, no matter you receive calls or not from your friends, family and relatives, but you make endless plans to celebrate the day.